HOW TO WIN LOVE

HOW TO WIN FRIENDS OR LOVE

 As you all know this blog is about VALENTINES DAY and valentines week. And valentines day is also worthless without LOVE or friends. In this post I am going to share 5 most effective ways to win love or friends. This post not only helps you to win love but also helps a lot in your life for dealing with people. I gained all this super powerful ways by went through a book named HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE.

So let discuss.............

1.DONT CONDEMN OR CRITICISED:

Criticism is a word ..no one likes until it comes to them. But we often forget about the negative impact of criticism on others. For any mistakes ...we often criticise others..and yaa it's one of  the reason of cold war .

Specially for a relationship ...criticism or complains are very sensitive issues which easily can break the line of respect. specially I think you have noticed that the successful Leaders never criticise their followers .

2.SMILE:

As we all know that Smile is one of the most precious gift. And absolutely it has a full of positive impact on others. When you talk with others in a smily manner...Even harsh things also seem to be nice. But a person who spread knowledge in a rude manner..seems boring and untakeble.

SO ALWAYS SMILE AND YOU WILL GAIN A GOOD IMPRESSION ALWAYS.

3.AROUSE AN EAGER WANT:

This point is very important for making relationship and business also. We always think about ourselves. But the true is in a strong bond between two persons...is always made by taking care of others, the lovers or business men who always think about their profit. will .never gain happiness.

Think about the profit of your partner/customer. Think about their ways of satisfaction and their profit. Then and only then you can get profit.

4.GIVE APPRICIATION:

Who don't want this? Yes... everyone wants and NEEDS appreciations to improve personality and their self confidence. Whenever anyone get any appreciation from anyone... a instant good image of the speaker is made by the mind of the listener in a natural way.

So always appreciate others specially your lovers or friends to win their HEARTS. Its a very effective way to decrease the mental distants.

5.BE A GOOD LISTENER AND SHOW YOURSELF INTERESTED:

Every people in this world think themselves as a good speaker . But actually a good speaker is always a good listener.

so listen to others and show interest to themselves in this way you will grow a super powerful image in your partner's mind. But a important think is to be impressive you also have to be talkative, because without that your partner may think that you are not interested to talk with them though you are a good listener.

SO AFTER ALL THIS I WANT TO STATE THAT MAY BE ANY OF THE UPPER WAYS WILL MAY NOT BE EFFECTIVE FOR YOU IN ANY CASE BECAUSE WE ALL KNOW LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLE FULL OF EXCEPTIONS . BUT DONT GET HURT...THERE IS ANOTHER WAYS ALWAYS TO MAKE FRIENDS AND WIN HEARTS.

SO THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS YOUR KARMA WILL DECIDE YOUR LIFE.

SO if you like this post please keep updated and do comments and share your opinion. Thank you ,wish you a happy life.